Being closed off like that additionally might point out that you’re nervous, and it makes you look small. And in dating, for men, it is necessary to get massive. And I’m not talking about pumping your self full of protein and hitting the health club, except that’s what you want. No, I’m speaking about making yourself huge in phrases of your presence. Some ways to just make sure you are going out with some constructive vitality is to exercise extra. Spend time with people who add value to your life, and so they don’t drain your vitality.